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What exactly is
"Love?"
Many have tried to define it in simplistic, easy to
understand terms. The Collin's New English Dictionary defines it
thus:
"Love vb
1. to have a great affection for a person or thing. 2. to have
passionate desire for someone. 3. to like (to do something) very much.
n 4. an intense emotion of affection towards a person or
thing."
Can this
emotion called "Love" really be so easily defined? While
love can bring great joy, it can also cause sadness, it may bring
feelings of pleasure yet can also be the source of incredible pain.
Love can motivate one to do wonderful things, while on the darker side
it can be the catalyst that compels one to stalk another. Love can
raise the spirit to great heights, yet it can also sink one into the
deepest depths of depression. For many "Love" is a
double-edged sword.
I don't think
"Love" can be fit into tidy little definitions. But we know
what doesn't constitute "Love." Love isn't about controlling
another, nor is it about being dependant. It is not love for a child
that compels a parent to encourage their child to love one parent
above the other. Love is not causing deliberate harm or pain to
another under the guise of "love." Love isn't using
harsh or unkind words to cut. Love isn't about selfishness, greed,
lies or thoughtlessness.
One thing is definite,
it is the ability to feel, receive, and give Love that makes us whole
as human beings. One of the facts that sets psychopaths apart from the
rest of us is their inability to feel empathy or love. They cannot
give it, receive it or comprehend it, even at it's most basic
level. Without this emotion called "Love" we would
become callous, cold, miserable, empty, lonely, cruel, uncaring and soulless.
It is vitally necessary for maintaining a healthy and happy outlook on
life, but it is even more important to love ourselves, for if you
cannot love yourself, you cannot love another.
Finally, world
peace will only be obtainable when Love replaces hatred, violence and
intolerance the world over. |